There a a phrase the elephant in the living room which purports to describe what it s like to live with a drug addict an alcoholic an abuser.
Elephant in the room similar sayings.
Karen joy fowler an elephant can trumpet and shake the earth but not the self possession of the ants who hold it.
When there is an invisible elephant in the room one is from time to time bound to trip over a trunk.
We love nothing more than to declare other people insane especially people we don t like jon ronson the elephant in the room.
People have to be made to feel uncomfortable and especially white people because we re comfortable.
Put another way it is a noticeable issue that is not acknowledged or addressed.
If there is an elephant in the room it means that an obvious problem is being ignored.
People outside such relationships will sometimes ask how could you let such a business go on for so many years.
The expression elephant in the room or the elephant in the living room is a metaphorical idiom in english for an important or enormous topic question or controversial issue that is obvious or that everyone knows about but no one mentions or wants to discuss because it makes at least some of them uncomfortable or is personally socially or politically embarrassing controversial inflammatory or dangerous.
Obviously race is the elephant in the room and we all understand that.
It is based on the idea thought that something as conspicuous as an elephant can ap.
Didn t you see the elephant in the living room.
We still have no clue what being born white means.